The psychology of envy
People often meet with the feeling of envy in their lives. But they do not always know how to respond to it and what envy is really about in general. In fact, it is both a source of weakness and strength. This will be discussed in the article. The psychology of
How to survive the death of a loved one?
Attitudes of a masochist
Today the word "masochist" can be heard quite often. However, we must ask ourselves what does it really mean? The simplified answer that most people say is "A person who enjoys pain". But in reality, is much deeper. First of all, a masochist is a person who cannot accept themselves and
How to deal with every stage after a breakup
When you experience a breakup, the pain can be compared to cutting through your flesh. A person goes through each stage after the breakup on their own way. My grandmother, who had gone through hunger and war, also said that parting with a person was the same as burying him.
Rules of a woman for dealing with a man
The path to happiness is emotional freedom
With the onset of the moment that brings you success, and therefore happiness, you become the owner of emotional freedom. At the same time, there may be weaker people nearby who will be ready to blame you for everything. They use a variety of manipulations, knowing for sure that this
How to get out of a codependent relationship?
In psychology, there is a term named "manipulative triangle", which references mostly to a codependent relationship. It consists of Persecutor, Victim, and Rescuer. Its creator, oddly enough, is always the Victim. This is a person who has thrown responsibility for her life onto others and sincerely believes that the Persecutor is
Sigmund Freud in 1984 came to the conclusion that the human psyche reacts to circumstances that are unpleasant for it using defense mechanisms. I want to note here that they are not conscious. A person activates them without realizing it, and by and large they all act as self-deception. Their
12 truths of life to gain freedom
An important realization in life, a kind of "trigger" that changes you for the better, is the acceptance of the fact that it is impossible to control everything in this life. If you look at your life experience right now, then remember a considerable number of events when you wanted
Fear prevents you from change
When a person begins to strive for spiritual awakening, they encounter inside and outside themselves different forces that prevent change. I had the opportunity to observe a large number of people in the course of such cultivation of their own consciousness and a qualitative improvement in life. And I noticed
Projection is a mechanism in which our minds are able to provide certain qualities of ourselves to other beings or objects. The human psyche has this amazing ability to endow other people, animals, things with qualities that are most significant to them; but have nothing to do with who or
How to survive a hurtful betrayal
Many of us have experienced the betrayal of a loved one in our lives. The feelings that we experience at this moment are remembered forever. They are comparable to the reverse side of a mirror, where our smiling reflection is not visible, but only emptiness and darkness. In the first stage, betrayal devastates